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Lessons for Lovers

Kahlil Gibran was a Lebanese poet, philosopher and artist. His greatest work The Prophet is a collection of prose-poetry essays. The essays cover many topics such as giving, love, friendship and self-knowledge. The following excerpt on Marriage (which I think in this modern age can be applied to anyone in a serious, committed relationship) struck me as particularly potent.

You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.

Kahlil Gibran 

I believe we can all learn from Gibran’s wisdom – to be less needy and reliant in our relationships, and instead allow love to be the base-camp for our explorations. Giving us strength and courage to go forth and master both ourselves and the wider-world, safe in the knowledge that we can and shall return to the home of our hearts.

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